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Let us be Careful

It is interesting how we can have opinions about people. If your opinion about someone is negative and you always meditate on that thing, it is not healthy. There is a reason why the Word of God says: Php 4:8 Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things. Sometimes we want people to do things our way; we are in an endeavor to change people. We forget that only God can change people, our duty is just to present the truth and continue loving people even if they do not take our counsel. One thing I have realized is that when I try hard to change people, it stresses me out. My mind becomes darkened and I do not see things clearly. I start to see other wrong things with the person. I start to move backwards instead of forward. Eish bitterness!! It starts to spread...

ewww!

I did not know that there could be so many bad sexual things in a person. Here is a list of some of the bad things that the Lord has showed me. I hope that in sharing this with you, there are some things that will be revealed in your heart and you will hand them over to the Lord. The Lord is willing and able to pull you through only if you allow Him and depend on His grace. Bad sexual dreams Rape/ vengeful sex Sexual Imaginations Lust Impure sexual thoughts Anal sex Adultery Fornication Incest Molestation Masturbation Acceptance sex (having wrong sex in order to be accepted) I am not married yet and I am so grateful that the Lord has searched my heart and helped me pull though all these things. I have not literally committed all these, but they were resident in my heart. It is shocking I could not even believe it myself. All these things have got roots, I am sure the Lord will reveal the roots to all those things in your heart.

Victory

Imagine what the world would look like if we were all victorious. This thought just excites my whole being, a place where everyone is moving in the fullness of God, a place where people will forget about themselves and embrace Love. It does not help to be selfish; there is no reward in selfishness.   It helps to love and to allow people to experience Love. It helps to allow the Lord to give us the grace to show Love to those around us. It may sometimes seem hard or “look foolish”, but the rewards are unimaginable. When we show Love to those who are around us and remember that it is all about Jesus, there are endless possibilities.   I want to be victorious and I want the people around me to be victorious. I am going to believe the Lord for this. By His grace, there will be change around me. Please join me in this battle, let us allow the Lord to use us to put those who are around us first, there are no boundaries when it comes to Love, try it and see, it works. ...

NO

NO So many times people misinterpret the word "NO". NO is a very good word. Sometimes when people say NO, to us, we may interpret it as the following: I hate you, You are not worth it, You are stupid, You are not my friend, and sometimes we even think the person who is saying NO is selfish and inconsiderate. This however is not true. If we view everything as coming from the Lord and we believe that He is the one who is ordering our steps, then this mentality will change. God sometimes says NO to our requests. This does not mean He does not care about us. He is always on our side. It is very dangerous to assume and judge from the outside. This is what the enemy wants he does not want us to be deep. He wants us to be shallow. Let us fight this battle together, I am honestly one of you guys. There is grace available. On the other hand, when you say NO to people it does not mean that you are insensitive, it does not mean that you do not care, it also does not mean you do not Love...

THE TRUTH

I have always heard people saying the truth hurts. I choose to disagree with this statement. The truth does not hurt. The only thing that the truth does is to bring freedom and relief to the person telling the truth and to the person receiving the truth. Yes the truth may be shocking or disappointing but in the long run it does not hurt anyone. On the other hand when I speak a lie and listen to lies, I will definitely be hurt. When I lie to people and do not keep my promises, it hurts them. I have seen this in my own life. I have lied to people and I have listened to lies, all it does is bring hurts. We are sometimes afraid of confronting others (in love) because we believe that they will be hurt. This is not true. If it is the truth I think it should be spoken in love of course. I think we should not be afraid of speaking that truth. This can only be done by the Grace of God. He is our enabler. THE TRUTH DOES NOT HURT, IT BRINGS FREEDOM AND RELIEF.

ISSUES

It has come to my realisation that we are lacking behind. There are so many people that I have met in my life including me, who are afraid of confronting issues in their lives. Our hearts are full of issues that must be dealt with. One of the most painful things I have witnessed is that we become too busy doing stuff. We become too busy trying to help people and refuse to confront issues in our own lives. For some reason it gives us comfort to help others and forget about the pain in our lives, it is nice and easy to ignore the issues. I have seen this many times even in my own life. I have come to believe that, this is exactly what the enemy wants. He wants to keep us bound in our little bondages. I have come to realise that if I concentrate on, confront and allow the Lord to deal with issues in my life, He ultimately brings people into my path that I can show Him to them. It is so scary to love people, yet there is nothing to loose. It is so scary to take down our walls, yet the Lord...

sex

Hello This is kind of a brave statement to put on a BLOG, since it is something that is from my heart. I am just hoping that someone will benefit from it. Some of you probably knew this all along. I also know that God should come first before everything in our lives. This is so true. Some days ago, the Lord told me that sex and marriage must come after Him, especially sex. If the reason I want to get married is sex, then I am not ready. The reason I should want to get married is that I want to be closer to Him. The centre of every relationship should be God and not sex. This meeting with the Lord really cut me to the heart. I am so glad that the Lord showed me this before I made a commitment for the wrong reasons. The Lord has blessed me with a beautiful God fearing woman and I believe that one day He will join us together in marriage. God is a God who forgives and teaches His children to live righteously. Any other obsessions we have apart from the Lord are just vain. I’m sure there a...